Thursday, February 18, 2010

empower better family relationship

husband and wife empowering each other and their children with personal development

Self confidence is a must to every individual. It is something that we all need to develop, especially if we already have children and we want them to be at their very best at all times. Self Confidence, is one great way to keep each member of the family strong against all odds. Being confident is having the power and certainty to create our desires and dreams. It is a key ingredient in maximizing children's potential in academic achievement, social success, and personal happiness. For parents, it keeps their relationship stronger and better.

We all want to protect our children, keep them from harms way and safeguard them from danger. We can absolutely do that, by showing them we have enough confident about ourselves, and as a parent. However, I am so aware that is easier said than done. But we must do it, if we don't want to be a failure for the rest of our lives. Only you can help yourself, and your kids to be successful in their life.

There are lots of books, movies, and workshop where you can encourage your children to joined. Ofcourse, as a Parent, you have to be very supportive in all manners; Financially, Mentally, Emotionally, Physically and Spiritually. You can also, as a parent, joined social clubs in your village to learned more about life. No matter how old we are, we still need to learned a lot of things about life. It is also one great way to boost our self esteem. If we don't have enough experience about life, then we can never be matured enough to be a parent to our children. Believe me, no matter who you are, even if you are the well known person in the world, you still need to be flexible on learning and gaining knowledge.

I can name few best authors for kids;

# Jane Yolen
# Kevin Henkes
# Katherine Paterson
# Patricia Polacco
# Joan Baur
# Chris Van Allsburg
# Kate DiCamillo
# Cynthia Rylant
# Mem Fox
# Gary Paulson

As a parents, we don't want our children to have a very low self-esteem. For sure you we all want them to try new things, belive about themselves; socialize with other kids;share their joy with you and have so many great friends. Let them read books, so that they can internalized the situation. Hear them whenever they talk to you, so you can assist them on expressing their ideas.

I am so aware, that it isn't common for children to love books, as much as we do. We'd rather watch tv with our kids, or simply stroll at the park. It is also a cool idea,but then we should not take reading for granted. Spend time reading along with your kids, and have a great tate-to-tate with them.

It is known that a child needs affection and love. If you and your partner, doesn't love each other anymore, expect a low self esteem to your children. Don't be suprised if you realized that you are also beginning to hate yourself. It is inevitable that arguments, occur for each family. Just keep in mind, don't let anger overweigh you. For as long as you can manage to remain calm, do so. A happy living environment is essential in areas of personal confidence and personal valuation. If a child has been constantly criticized, bullied or ignored during early childhood they will have much less child self-esteem than children who are praised, encouraged, listened to and valued. Often it is the case that a child hasn't had or cannot respond to the praise or encouragement from a parent or teacher alone. This means that it is important that every child has the confidence within themselves to appreciate their own self worth and specialties.

As couples, you can also help each other to have a healthy relationship by dating, and going to cozy and romantic places, atleast once a month. Taking wacky pixs together is also a stress reliever. Joining Sports Club along with your kids is one great way to empower great personality; Communicating and Compromising to things that each of you has to improved; Learn to Identify how you can help each other be a tough person,ever; Make sure to be obedient to each other, and be flexible for different changes in your life.

Good character, is the best gift you can share to each other. Nothing can beat that! It's also a key to success! You wanna be successful, change your thought and be flexible in any changes.I hope that from this day onward, you will start to empower great personality with your partner, along with your kids.

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